Up your masturbation game. We have discussed the health benefits to masturbation. But let’s discuss how we can up our game in the self pleasure department.
Masturbation is regarded as part of our “Self Care routine”, so best we get on with it and get wet.
Even when a climax is not reached, with frequent masturbation, we relax our brain and then the body relaxes and everything else balances itself out.
Try Edging
For a more intense orgasm, discover how to edge. Learn how to take yourself closer to the edge without climaxing. Have a secret soiree with yourself. Go from hero to zero and back again.
Let it roll, shifting the focus. Its so tempting to have an orgasm when you can and want to.
Visual Pleasure
Oh yes! Yes! Yes!
There are dozens of tutorial videos out there and porn to boot. Learn to practice your orgasm techniques. We are visual folk after all and watching is such a turn on.
Discover different ways through online videos on, “How To” – You will be surprised what you can discover. Learn to practice your own orgasm techniques there’s more than you can imagine online.
I have to say, I discovered a few online portals that took me to a different level of my personal self play. Seriously, it’s worth checking it out.
Invest in a New Sex Toy
Well, there are no two ways about trying out something new. We are so spoilt for choices and there are 11 different orgasms to be had.
Invest in something you have never tried before. Or simply add to your collection. Like adding some nipple clamps and explore that nipple orgasm I told you about. Or a pussy pump, again (blush… on personal merit) THE best little gadget I have ever discovered. And of course a new vibrator.
Try something different. Like a thrusting rabbit. I love the Happy Rabbit Thrusting or the G-Spot Stroker with it’s “come hither” movement.
We have discussed the Pleasure Air Technology and the different sensations these magical toys give. But look beyond the pale, and investigate some of the more interesting penetrating vibrators. They twist and gyrate and touch all those inner sweet spots.
Invest In Something Beautiful
Oh! I love glass. It is beautiful and tasteful and full of rigid surprises. The thing about glass is that is is hardy and yet delicate. It is versatile, did I mention beautiful.
Allow yourself to experiment with temperature play. They are Pyrex so withstand rapid changes in temperature.
Look for something shapely with ridges and swirling colours or opt for an elegant glass butt plug. You won’t want to remove it feels so delicious.
Talk About It
Why not open up the conversation. Talking about masturbation is very healthy. It allows you to feel open and gives space to explore. Talking about masturbation can be beneficial; you normalise it, especially for women.
Chatting about it makes sense and suddenly we realise. We are all doing it. You never know what exciting tips you might discover.
Love Your Bum
Oh! Fall in love with your bum. Explore gentle anal solo play. Invest in something that wont daunt you, again, in praise of glass. The beautiful pink glass butt plug is so sexy and elegant you want to keep it in there. 
But honestly, once you open the back door, it ignites different levels of pleasure. Stimulates all those sensitive nerve ends that surround the anus and vagina. A small butt plug and some clitoral stimulation.
Wowza! You will wonder what took you so long.
Make Time
Time is a thief and if you are not careful it will run away from you; and practice does make perfect.
There is no set time to experiment, and we are not born with a finite set of orgasms. Bang away. The more the merrier. Experiment and learn about yourself.
Ge Your Head in The Game
Engage your brain. Read some erotica, watch a porn or erotic movie that has a storyline. Get your brain in the game and your body will thank you.
Unless the brain is engaged, the body will linger. Remember it starts in the head and works its way through until the rest of your body is engaged.
Discover fantasies finding new and exciting triggers. There is so much stimuli out there. Explore.
Making Movies
I think that filming yourself masturbating is hell of a sexy. If you can get the gadgets in order, film away.
Smartphones have slow-mo and handsfree modes. Something about filming yourself seems taboo, but it is for your personal consumption or to share with who you choose. Press rewind from time to time and see what a turn on it is.
Gismos and Gadgets
Don’t feel you need to stick to the regular. Vibrator, fingers and dildos. Add some spice to it. The shower-head is your best friend, so is the pool outlet vent. Push yourself up close and personal and feel that hydro pressure against your clit. Try a tickler, add some mint, play with ice and add a soy candle to your playtime.
Lube Liberally
Lube and more lube. If you think you don’t need it, doesn’t mean you shouldn’t use it.
Lube EVERYTHING! Your toy, your fingers and amp up your masturbation session. Try something with a tingle for something different. My Mantra… Wetter Is Better.
Up The Rhythms
We tend to stick to what we know best. Regular up and down. Lying on our backs. We are creatures of habit. Experiment. Lift your butt, put your feet up against the wall raising your pelvis. Try some circular movements over the entire vagina. Clitoris, labia and the opening. Slow down and speed it up, tap, rub and penetrate. Prolong and the orgasm.
Change Positions
We generally masturbate on our backs.
Explore different positions. Lie on your belly with the vibrator between your legs, or sit astride the vibrator or dildo. Most dildos have wonderfully strong suction cups, great for gyrating or thrusting.
Just a slight shift in your mindset will deliver a completely different and explosive experience.
Mutual Masturbation?
Why not? It doesn’t have to be a solo experience; and that not necessarily means your partner. We get up to mischief from time to time and the girls go wild.
Masturbating with your partner can be incredibly sexy so why not give it a bash?
