Sex on the first date? Hell yes! Why not?
Not much good is going on out there, so if the fun is between the sheets, bring it on!
It’s time to remove the stigmas about sex on the first date. Virginity was a stand in for purity and morality, a misogynistic ideal that was indeed! It was, and somehow, still used to repress female sexuality today.
Sex on the first date is actually amazing. If you want to have sex on the first date or hook up, then you have every right to finish that Merlot and do it.
We all have our own ideas about this topic. Some will hide it under the covers, others will roll their eyes to the ceiling, pondering, others will jump and yell, “why the hell not”?
Myth or magic, sex on the first date can be exciting. Most unplanned ventures end up being unforgettable anyhow. If you are feeling it, why deny yourself the pleasure?
If a date or a hook up ends up in the sack, consider yourself lucky.
More than a third of men found love after sleeping with their partner on a first date and 56% of women have had sex with their partner on the first date.
According to http://IllicitEncounters.com 36% of women and 34% of men have lead to relationships after sex on a first date. That is a pretty good innings.
Women are slightly more wary than men who jump into the sack immediately. One in 6 women (17%) said they would think less of someone having sex on the first date compared to 11% of men. More than 2000 people were surveyed for this research.
Generally, the question of having sex on the first date is rather a loaded question. The general message out there is, If you want to have sex on a first date then do it, says Jessica Leoni of IllicitEncounters.
Gone are the days of the third night be prepared for sex, take your condoms and so on.
Actually, no, take your condoms with you, everywhere you go! It is a prerequisite to living in the 21st Centaury!
The Fun of First Date Sex
Sex on the first date can be liberating and exciting. It allows us to break down our own personal biases about sexuality, and improves your sexual self esteem.
There are obvious personal obligations to look out for, but ultimately it is on your terms or no terms at all.
If you are feeling it, then go for it. Why deny yourself the pleasure?
It gives you an opportunity to see what you are dealing with sexually. You get to see their funny side, (if it indeed exists), you discover the sexual chemistry and you also get to discover their performance in bed.
You also get to know the person on a more intimate level, all the barriers are broken and the, you have both obviously let down your guards and had fun.
Once you have slept with someone, all that, “weird” stuff is out the window and you are able to relax and enjoy the naked moments, however they turn out to be.
Don’t hang your hope on a one night stand. There is a world out there that places us in vulnerable situations, we have become dependant on instant messaging and social media. That can be the worst! Don’t waste your time waiting too long for a response. Tick that box, your terms or no terms.
Sex is Good for You!
We all know that an orgasm ignites brain chemicals and releases an abundant of feel good hormones. Orgasm or not, having sex is a great release of pleasure, it is good for your health, and satisfies your own needs.
Regardless of how the penny falls in the long run. If it is or what you want to do, which is actually the part that matters. Having sex on the first date is not a bad idea, however it is an excellent idea.
We advocate for safe sex, and pleasure. Always keep safe, keep condoms, a sachet of lube to spice it up. Be prepared. Safe Sex Matters and that is all you need to worry about.
