What is Pegging?
Pegging, as it is commonly known as, the new dimension of couples play. Men have become more giving to the idea of women taking charge of his bottom with a strap on and commanding he bend and part for a little anal play!
Fact – There is a 300% increase in the number for heterosexual couples using strap on dildos and with men being more open to the idea of female to male anal fun. With 100% increase in sales on strap on and harnesses, this has taken a leap into the front row of dildo and harness play.
For couples who are trying pegging for the first time, there are a few factors that need to be taken into consideration.
Firstly, honesty in intimacy is essential. So, ensure that you are both at ease with the idea and are both open to exploring this role play.
Find a harness that is as sexy as it is practical. Nothing that will slip and slide. There are interesting and sexy harnesses that allow you to explore with various dildos. The idea, would be to start with something small. You don’t want him to run screaming out of the door – never to return sane at the idea of a huge dong entering his butt.
Prepare with lots of luscious lube – for all toys use a water-based lube. Lather it on and up, it becomes part of the sex play. Wetter is always better, is our mantra. Lube up and slide the dildo between his butt cheeks and on his perineum. Penetration should be last on the list. There are erogenous zones all around the male anus. Little does he know that they have always been there, but never had that door open. Now is the time.
Relax, the journey should be as much of a turn on for the woman as it is for him. Exploring that dominant aspect of being the one who penetrates and is in complete control is highly recognised as an aphrodisiac. Use your hands to stimulate the penis as you penetrate; go slow, many men have reported that the orgasm received during anal penetration and having his penis stroked at the same time have been some of the best experienced.
Couples say that the role reversal of dominance is such a massive turn on that equal pleasure and fun is had by both parties and something that they will certainly keep Pegging in their sex play repertoire.
