Self pleasure for women deserve rituals. This is such a vital aspect of a women’s sexuality.
During this global pandemic, we are being called or forced to soothe ourselves, give to ourselves; to touch and self nurture ourselves. Discovering what a wonderful gift it is to really be forced into learning how to give to ourselves, and the pleasure derived from it.
We discuss the most indulgent Self-Pleasure Rituals for women.
With a stigma no longer attached to the art of self-pleasure, we have it all out in the open, but somehow it still reaches that, “touchy feely” subject. Yes, again, pun intended or Freudian slip.
According to a survey conducted by AsapSicence, at least 72% if women have masturbated in their lifetime. In my opinion, that is not quite true, or nearly enough.
The reputation of self indulgence and self pleasure is considered the, “cornerstone of sexuality”.
Solo sex is the ideal opportunity to explore the body and amplify your sexual experience with your partner.
Masturbation is not a sexual practice, there are many health benefits to self-pleasuring on a regular basis. Self Pleasure is a fantastic stress reliever, an orgasm promotes better sleep, not to mention the rush of oxytocin and the endorphins it pushes out, elevating the mood and general well being.
Weekends and off Days and the Perfect O
Off days are fun days. I personally love the late night big O, and a sleep in, in the morning. But a middle of the day O? Perfect for some edgy fun. It doesn’t matter, self pleasure requires time and space. Find it!
Turn The Lights Down Low
Set the mood to suit yourself. During the day, draw the curtains, pump up the music and liberate yourself. An after dark candle sets the mood. Try a massage candle and discover the pleasure with temperature play. Indulge in some sensual massage oil, rub your body, massage your boobs, tweak your nipples. Take your time and explore your body.
Glass Pleasure
Invest in a beautifully crafted glass dildo. Not only is aesthetically beautiful, but it deserves a place at the top of the SELF PLEASURE list of items to invest in. They are able to withstand heat and cold, which makes for perfect experimenting with temperature play. Not to mention gloriously indulgent.
A glass dildo is ideal for interesting aspects of play. it can be used as a wand to massage tired muscles, the shapely definitions along the shaft are, to-die-for-pleasure. Creating a series of different sensations.
But! If your beautifully crafted glass dildo happens to drop, and appear to not have a crack or a chip. Give it the grace of a beautifully crafted, rather phallic paper weight. So treat her kindly.
Self Pleasure with an Audience
It is no secret that a bit of voyeurism is an absolute turn on. I know of a couple who love to masturbate in front of each other without any issues. Open yourself up to pleasuring yourself in front of your partner.
The Aftermath of Self Pleasure
The aftermath of self pleasure is always euphoric. The self indulgent feelings after an orgasm are wonderful. Find a ritual for after masturbation that suits you. A lovely deep bath, a naked dip in the pool, or simply drift off into post coital slumber.
Discover
Discover your G-spot, learn how to squirt. Get edging. Invest in some divine sex toys to take you to those plateaus of pleasure. Get a G-spot vibrator, and watch how easy squirting becomes when you pay attention to your body. Purring clit suckers will have you on the edge of edging; whatever it is that you choose to do, do it for your own self pleasure.
I speak to people all day about honouring their sexuality. It is such an enormous aspect of being a woman; and deserves time and space to evolve.
Wham Bam Thank You Mam
Masturbation should be something you do daily, almost daily. Let masturbation become a part of your daily ritual, time when you get home from a long day and spread those knees and take out that little bullet vibe and get your Rocks Off. Do it in the shower or when your mind is just so busy, an orgasm is what you know will lead to delightful slumber.
Find out for yourself and play with the different moods and where they take you on an intimate level with yourself.
Be Your Own Lover
BE YOUR OWN LOVER. You know what you want. If you don’t, then discover what it is that turns you on.
All too often we head straight to the pussy or take our clitoris in hand and rub it senseless. Start with your boobs. Invest in some nipple clamps, or a clit pump. https://www.secretcorner.co.za/uncategorised/pussy-pumps-change-the-way-you-orgasm/
Change the way you orgasm. Discover different erogenous zones on yourself. The inside of your elbow; is a deliciously sensual spot, the inside of your thighs, trail some ice and feel it melt, trail it to your nipples. It is all about the experience and what you want.
Invest in Yourself
Invest in a little box of tricks. Add to your collection as you go along.
Discover what turns you on, pop in and browse what is available or go online and see what people are gossiping about. We are always on point with the latest in sexy technology. Womanizer have been voted the sex toy for women for 2021. Take a read below and read my review on this amazing little Air Tech pleasure toy.
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It is definitely worth investing in your personal pleasure.
Ben Wa Balls
Geisha Balls or Kegel Balls
Something profound happens when you insert these little love balls and take the morning off with them snug inside you. Get to know the fullness of your vagina. It’s your little secret. I have spent an entire afternoon out with a friend with my gorgeous Ben Wa Balls swirling inside me. An absolute MUST to heighten the prolonged pleasure zone.
Discover Tantra
In Tantra the idea is learning how to give yourself pleasure, to turn a genital orgasm into an whole body orgasmic experience. Through Tantra you will discover how to direct your orgasms through your entire body.
Tantric Self Pleasuring increase the overall body arousal. Using your Ben Wa balls during Tantric self pleasure is a must it enhances the awareness of self pleasure, it is deeply relaxing.
To discover this level of self pleasure is what we ultimately want to achieve.
Open The Back Door
The taboo of anal play has left, via the back door and opened new and exciting possibilities of sexuality. Incorporate anal play into your personal intimate time.
Ensure that you have a good anal lube; invest in a butt plug that you can keep in for extended periods of time. Spoil yourself and get used to the fullness and note how your G-Spot is pushed forward. With a little Butt Plug, not only will you feel the pleasure of stimulating all those little nerve ends in your bottom, but don’t be surprised if your orgasms get you squirting.
A whopping anal orgasm and when the G-Spot is stimulated, a mind blowing squirting orgasm.
