Big Dick? Small Dick? Does penis size really matter?
The Short Answer
No, penis size does not matter. Well not in terms of desire or functionality. Size has zero to do with the ability to give or receive pleasure.
Obviously some love a bigger sized penis. Bigger is not necessarily better. Its a personal choice. You like pineapple on your pizza. Me, I don’t.
Bigger is not essentially Better!
Contrary to what you might have heard in the banter at the gym, and certainly what some informal media projects spout out.
A big dick is not the bees knees!
A bigger than big dick has been associated with higher risk of infection as well as making some positions rather painful.
Then there is that choking and gagging reflex during oral sex.
That’s another story altogether!
BUT
Having said that, there are ways to get around these seemingly wide berths.(pun intended)
People still buy into the myth that bigger is better.
What do we mean by “BIG” ?
Well according to a recent study on penis size, the average penis length is about 9.15 cm flaccid and about 13.2 erect. That’s a bit of a mouth full. While the average girth is about 9.30 cm flaccid and 11.60 erect. I’d get measuring if I were you.
The prospect of putting a really large penis into a vagina may be a little intimidating, not impossible though.
There are ouch free positions to explore. But also copious amounts of lube does the trick.
Smaller is not Essentially Bad.
A smaller dick is easier to handle, so all involved can get in on all the fun and focus on all round pleasure.
A quick heads up…(another pun – not intended) Most people with penis’ think everyone else is packing someting bigger and better. Here is the reality of it. South African men sport a bigger than average penis size coming in at 15.2 cm erect, but we won’t into penis politics.
The fact is it is not how much you have it is how you use what you have.
Size has nothing to do with Stamina!
Regardless of how you are hung. If you lack stamina, you lack stamina. Nothing you can do is going to stop you from running out of steam, or shooting your load quicker; that a well hung stallion.
Nothing to do with Fertility
If you want to make a baby, size is not going to make a difference. For starters, sperm is produced in the testicles. There is evidence, however that stress can reduce the sperm quality and affect fertility.
And, while we are on this subject, stress can put a wet blanket on sexual pleasure, boners fall flat and impact on your overall health.
Size Can and Will affect your game. For Better. For Worse.
Size can affect your game, but how comes down to you.
Discover ways to make the most of what you have got and all the other ways you can please your partner. Be a rock star in bed. If you focus on size alone, you’re going to flop. Literally and figuratively. Don’t neglect your skills.
Maximise What You Are Working With.
It is not the size of your penis that counts as much as what you do with it.
Here is how to max it out with what you have got and feel good with what you are working with. Bigger. Leaner, smaller or someplace between.
Bigger or Well Endowed.
Make sure your partner is super aroused, use lots of lube more tongue and focus on foreplay. Focus on all the erogenous zones, nipples and explore other places like behind the knee or the crook of the arm.
Remember to get into a position that makes penetration a little easier, lift her butt, use a sex wedge or some pillows. Girl on top does help with her being in control of penetration.
A Little Less Endowed
Doggy style is a good start. It gives you more reach and angle to penetrate deeper. Chin and chest down and bum up!
If the penis is on the thin side let your partner keep her thighs together or some exploring scissors, or missionary with her facing down.
All said and done about the size or the supposed should be size of the penis, incorporate sex toys, clit stimulators, vibrators or a penis sleeve that doubles up as a cock ring to keep that member pumping.
Add a bit of BDSM play or sensory deprivation play. Use Ice, feathers and gentle restraints.
The Bottom Line
Being good in bed goes way beyond being in bed. On bed or anywhere else you choose. Just get busy.
It is not about the size of your dick – its about how you use it and about taking risks. You figure it out as you go along.
Keep your head out of it… (pun intended here…) but in the game.
One Night Stands
A study suggests that women prefer smaller penises in longer term relationships for reasons like physical comfort and preference.
Given that couples explore and get to know one another and there is less stress. Women typically experience a more pleasurable experience in a long term relationship.
Whereas, a one night stand will pay attention to size and prefers a bigger penis. The novelty contributes to pleasure, so a more novel sized penis is more primal pleasure.
Penises are like boobs. Some are bigger than others and some prefer big while other prefer small little boobies. Unlike with dealing with small boobs or big boobs, a smaller dick can be beefed up in a myriad of different different ways.
Cock Rings, Penis Pumps and the ultimate Penis Sleeve. These are all revered products that are highly sought after and certainly a top seller in sex shops.
Are Guys Hung Up On the Size?
That’s a yes! Men want a bigger and bulky penis. I know I wanted to be king of the penis jungle. But time prevails and I figured my dick was just perfect the way it was and discovered items like a cock ring or penis sleeve.
Drinking and an erection are not a match made in heaven. So we pop a pill and not think about the effects or contra-indications.
Be happy guys. Love your penis. Women have an unbelievable relationship with their vaginas and invest in anything and everything to keep it hot and tight, or wet or neat.
We are all in this sex game together. Love what you have got. If not you will always find something to boost your size or your ego at Secret Corner.
