Choosing your strap on harness is like choosing a lube. What works for you, works for you; regardless of your gender or sexuality.
Strap-On harnesses may be used for vaginal sex, anal sex, manual sex and also for masturbation. For those with vaginas as well as everyone in-between.
The Different Strap-On Harness Types
The numbers are astounding, so take your time and look for something that suites your body.
There are two types of strap-on harnesses:
- Underwear-style Harnesses
- Strap-On style Harnesses
If you decide to go for the Underwear-style harness, you can choose from different styles, that can vary between Boxers, thongs, boy shorts to sensual lingerie styles. This gives you the opportunity to have a few to choose from for whatever the occasion.
If you decide to go for the strap-on style harness, choose someting that has a snug fit, something that is going to mould your hips and is adjustable and soft for long term wear.
If you have never worn a strap-on before, a loose fit is not recommended, it will not give the control you need to attach a dildo for penetration.
Ensure your choice of harness has a lovely snug fit to ensure that you have controlled movement of a dildo to ensure intense sexual pleasure.
Harness Styles
The Jock Style
The Jock Style Harness is usually the most sought after. Two straps run between the legs and flirt out either side under the butt cheeks. Its sound complicated. It’s not. Just remember to choose something that allows access to your vagina.
Thong Jock
This is obvious! The thong-style harness straps run between the legs. However does not give as much security and tightness as the Jock-Style Harness. It does, however have minimal fabric between the legs for easier access to the vagina and bum bits without having to move the fabric or straps aside.
The Panty- Style
Stunning. Lovely and mostly feminine, with a touch of boy about them. All the comforts of different cuts and comfort of panties. The O-Ring is built in. These are generally comfortable to wear, but many panty -style harnesses are made in limited sizes which may not fit your body. Nice to look at though.
O-Rings
I repeat. O-Rings for a perfect fit. The O-Ring is a hole inside a harness strap that will hold the dildo in place. Choose the correct size. Better still, keep a selection of sizes of rings. Most Harnesses come with an extra O-Ring, but one is not enough.
Your Harness is an extension of your body. There are several factors you should take take to mind when choosing.
Personally. I love the look and feel of the straps of a harness, and it is recommended that you, “wear it in” if it is leather, (my personal best), it needs to mould to the shape of your body. Cotton, albeit; it is washable, cotton seems to stretch with movement; so what fitted you then, may not be the right fit now.
Also. When choosing your harness. Allow for vaginal room, hygiene and long term wearing. Consider all the aspects of your intimate health.
The obvious is to ensure that there is enough space for the vagina to be open and that there is not rubbing against the labia. That, in itself, is enough to cause unbearable thrush or a nasty rash in your gentle bits.
I think the idea that a cisgender woman can strap on a dildo and harness and she feels like a cowboy, ready and able to penetrate another person.
Strap-on’s can be used by straight women to penetrate gentlemen (which is called “pegging”) or by gay women or trans men to have penetrative sex their female partners, or by anyone to penetrate anyone! The penetrative options are endless. So choose wisely.
Nothing could be worse than getting down and slippery and the harness snaps, or the dildo slips out of position and you feel as though you have been stabbed in the thigh. Choose a brand that suits your body type and that is durable.
Harnesses can be used for different moods, so why not choose a few.
Strap-On-Me lingerie harnesses have blown sensuality and harnesses out of the ball park with their selection of lingerie styled, no fuss harnesses. Easy to wear, then pop into the machine when you are done.
Strap On Sex Is All That
Using a Strap on is way better than getting someone to use a vibrator on you. And I am all about loving the vibrator. In some instances, you feel you want to be pounded, or you might want to switch.
Either or, harnesses are dildo compatible and there are an array of divine dildos out there for some sensation-al pleasure.
Putting It On
Not all are made equally. But in true form we will give you what we suggest to our customers. Choose your pleasure and what feels sexy to you. It is all a matter of taste and what you are comfortable with.
On The Other Side
As much as I find the harness absolutely sexy, and the feel of straps gives me a feeling of power. I have to say, if I was to give my personal choice; I choose Fun Factory Share. The curve of the bulb and the ergonomically designed shape fits snugly inside; giving divine stimulation, the appendage is perfectly shaped and the length ideal for seamless sexy fun.
Share is excellent for pegging. The slim tip flares out slightly along the shaft making it easy to insert.
As we always say. Your sexual health is vital to Secret Corner. Choose a decent anal lube for pegging purposes. And as you know we do NOT NUMB THE BUM!
When you choose your harness, add a cleaner to ensure there are no gremlins after you have washed it. It will get sticky and it will get wet. Keep it clean.
Ensure that you practice safe sex at all times. Whether you are using a dildo, a vibrator or not, be condom wise.
