So, are you feeling sexually frustrated? You may be looking to release that sexual energy pent up inside you. Sexual frustration is more common than you think and it happens when when we become agitated as a result of not being satisfied with your sex life. Yes, you may be having regular sex but still be sexually frustrated. Sexual frustration occurs when you are not satisfied with the sex or intimacy your are having, whether or not you are lacking it.
So here we are. Wanting to end this madness and agitation of sexual frustration. This is not uncommon. You are not alone. Google, “I am sexually frustrated” – There will be numerous results and analogies of women and men, mind you, discussing or expressing the dissatisfaction of their sex lives. Don’t be embarrassed – just don’t let it set in. Sex and orgasms also have a number of health benefits for men and women. One benefit is that sex can help relieve stress by raising endorphins and other hormones that boost and improve mood.
If you find your browser history full of free porn sites. There is a definite chance that you are edging on the brink of sexual frustration. Clear your history and step away from your computer!
Start here and start now!
Shift your energy elsewhere. Not scrap booking or needle pointing – but get out there and Zumba up a storm. Surge the endorphins. If you are single and really want a blady good shag, then set it up. Consenting adults where intentions are clear and there is a deep level of trust. AKA, friends with benefits.
Alternatively start taking “care of yourself”. Perhaps consider masturbation and self pleasure. In 2014 Sweden sought to select a word that would accurately describe female masturbation – “Klittra” – a gender specific word for female masturbation. Jerking off, Lubing the Tube, Stroking the one-eyed snake – a few of the many euphemisms for male masturbation. These terms all exist due to the popularity of the action. We thank Hollywood for their contribution at allowing us to lose ourselves in their titillating sex scenes and we thank free porn streaming via our social media.
There are a number of kinky products our there to help achieve self pleasure. Keep a selection of silky lubes at hand, try out new things, like a clitoris pump, or nipple clamps. Explore enhancing serums. Naturally Intimate Earth Clitoral Serum, or G-Spot Serum is best – love Naturally.
I rather love that idea of an orgasm on the go – bullet vibrators are so sassy – the Rocks Off Gold collection has a bullet vibe that is perfectly fitting for that woman who wants to wear her pleasure around her neck. I love the daring and commanding style and the two other sexy little numbers add up for good measure.
The thing is sexual frustration has become a part of what we live with. Safe sex is paramount to all and everything. Not only safe sex, but personal safety. Taking matters into your own hands is really a perfect way to skim off the jiggered edges.
I chatted to a friend of mine – she was the proud owner of a wand vibrator. Rather elegant, she said, waterproof and had all the mod cons she wanted. But she wanted penetration. So, it will fluctuate and ebb and flow. Take charge of it – get what you want and explore however you choose.
Get your sexy to box built up – add a bit of something as the need. Explore different levels of pleasure.
And, to close, being in a relationship does not mean that your silky self-pleasure should end or come to a dramatic halt or even feel remotely guilty about it.
Couple masturbation? We’ll leave that for another time.