Welcome to 2019 – Here is your first challenge of the year – 10 days of sex.
Secret Corner always keep their promises – and we did tell you that we would challenge you in 2019. So, pack away your mobile phone, switch off the TV and head to the bedroom – or anywhere you choose. It is time add to your sexy play – and we have everything you need to reach maximum pleasure.
All bedrooms experience a bit of a drought from time to time; leaving us restless and wondering when the next rainstorm is going to hit.
We have a 10-day action plan to kick start 2019 – and get a bit of fire back into your sex life.
Day 1: Honour yourself as a sexual being
Stop thinking only the skinny ones have more fun – or the younger ones are better at… Acknowledge yourself as a sexual being and welcome the sexual changes that go with life changes.
Day 2: Leave the Lights on Baby
Love yourself – your body is fabulous. Take the time to look at your partners body and allow them to absorb yours – enhancing intimacy and enjoy it.
Day 3: Lose your Inhibitions
Stop waiting for that body you want – enjoy the body you have. Choose 3 parts today and get your partner to pay a little more attention to them, and don’t be afraid to tell them what you want.
Day 4: Kiss
Oh, my word. Kissing is the ultimate in intimacy. Re-discover the pleasure of kissing each other. Set a time limit – explore one another’s mouth. Smooch and linger.
Day 5: Discover new Boundaries
Explore with a little light bondage – discuss exploring anal, learn and discover the different heights you can reach together – set time aside and discuss setting higher levels of your sexy play.
Day 6: Quickies are Awesome
Grab your spouse – when or where you choose, when they least expect it, get the lube and let go in the moment.
Day 7: Flirt
Flirting creates an anticipation. We are so bombarded by instant messaging – use it to tease your partner during the day. Touch and play, by the time you get together, there will be fireworks.
Day 8: Get Active
The slightest tilt of the hips or thrust, a slightly adjust the speed or the intensity. This will make a massive difference in responses. Once you reach those different levels of play, you will reach for higher levels of intimacy.
Day 9: Oral Play
Nothing quite beats oral play. To give and to receive. Learn how to give the best blow job, or mind-blowing cunnilingus. Oral lubes are delicious and so readily available. Choose Wild Cherry or Chocolate Mint.
Day 10: Clean Out Your Toy Box
Replenish your sex toys – throw out the old and bring in the new – invest in a fabulous glass wand, or the latest in technology gives you a plethora of choices to choose from masturbators to sonic clitoral waves.
And we always say… Wetter is always a whole lot better – so lube it up and always remember to use a water-based lube with your sex toys. Ladies never use a silicone lube, and always use anal lube when you explore the nether regions.
Be wise and condomise, keep condoms at hand always – Know your Status if you are single and don’t be afraid to fly solo – There is nothing better than an orgasm; so reach it!
